"This video makes me feel peaceful," I said. "Like raking leaves into a big pile and falling into them. But if they had some actual leaves here that we could play in—now that would be art." She smiled. "I got thrown in the leaves a lot by my older brothers when I was growing up." I chuckled. The thought of this tiny girl being tossed gleefully into a huge pile of leaves was funny. 'You know," I said, "I have a friend who swears he can figure out a person's personality based on the age and sex of their siblings." "Like having older brothers makes me butch?" She adjusted her Harley- Davidson belt buckle. "That is so much bullshit.