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Here’s how to make friends as an adult:
- The new starts with the old: Touch base with old friends and leverage your superconnectors.
- Listen, seek similarity and celebrate: Don’t be interesting. Be interested.
- Be vulnerable: Open up a bit. Form an “if-then” profile.
- Don’t be a stranger: Check in every two weeks, minimum.
- Start a group: Things that are habits get done. So start a group habit.
What does Carlin Flora, author of Friendfluence, say is the number one tip for keeping friendships alive?
Reach out to your good friends and tell them how much they mean to you. It’s just not something we’re accustomed to doing. It’ll make you feel great, it’ll make them feel great and it will strengthen the bond between you. Be more giving to the friends you already have. People in romantic relationships always celebrate anniversaries, yet you might have a friend for 15 years and you’ve probably never gone out to dinner and raised a glass to that. We need to cherish our friendships more.
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This Is How To Make Friends As An Adult: 5 Secrets Backed By Research - Barking Up The Wrong Treeancient wisdom says will make you happy, click here.) Alright, popular kid, we’ve learned a lot. Let’s round it up and find out how to keep your new friendships alive over the long haul… Sum Up <span>Here’s how to make friends as an adult: The new starts with the old: Touch base with old friends and leverage your superconnectors. Listen, seek similarity and celebrate: Don’t be interesting. Be interested. Be vulnerable: Open up a bit. Form an “if-then” profile. Don’t be a stranger: Check in every two weeks, minimum. Start a group: Things that are habits get done. So start a group habit. What does Carlin Flora, author of Friendfluence, say is the number one tip for keeping friendships alive? Reach out to your good friends and tell them how much they mean to you. It’s just not something we’re accustomed to doing. It’ll make you feel great, it’ll make them feel great and it will strengthen the bond between you. Be more giving to the friends you already have. People in romantic relationships always celebrate anniversaries, yet you might have a friend for 15 years and you’ve probably never gone out to dinner and raised a glass to that. We need to cherish our friendships more. Okay, you’re done reading. Time to start doing. Reach out to a friend right now. Send them this post and let’em know you want to get together. Listen to what they’ve been up to. Celebra Summary
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