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Create the kind of life that the people you want to bring into your life are attracted to because it’s the kind of life that you’re attracted to. Create the kind of life that excites you when you wake up in the morning, and you have trouble getting to sleep at night because you’re so excited about tomorrow. Then, when you have that life for yourself, go out and find people that you want to be part of that life. See how many issues you have ‘running out of things to say’ then-- Good luck, brother.
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Create the kind of life that the people you want to bring into your life are attracted to because it’s the kind of life that you’re attracted to. Create the kind of life that excites you when you wake up in the morning, and you have trouble getting to sleep at night because you’re so excited about tomorrow. Then, when you have that life for yourself, go out and find people that you want to be part of that life. See how many issues you have ‘running out of things to say’ then-- Good luck, brother.
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Create the kind of life that the people you want to bring into your life are attracted to because it’s the kind of life that you’re attracted to. Create the kind of life that excites you when you wake up in the morning, and you have trouble getting to sleep at night because you’re so excited about tomorrow. Then, when you have that life for yourself, go out and find people that you want to be part of that life. See how many issues you have ‘running out of things to say’ then-- Good luck, brother.

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He’s not trying to get anything. He’s not trying to take anything from her. He’s not trying to use her. He’s not asking for anything in return. He’s just giving. He’s giving happiness, excitement, passion, joy, laughter. He’s filling her life with everything she’s ever wanted and more and asking for nothing in return, and the women you want can’t get enough of him. He’s a product that people want to buy! He doesn’t have to resort to cheap sales tactics or convoluted theories about life, love and the universe--he’s the kind of man that women want to bring into their life. I’m going to let you in on a little secret--the secret that’s at the core of being amazing with women and the secret of all the guys who’ve gained the success that you’ve always dreamed of. It is the secret to being the kind of guy that women just can’t get enough of. The secret to being that guy is knowing that it’s not about trying to manipulate her into bed; it’s not about trying to pretend that you’re something you’re not; it’s not about lying, manipulating or using her. It’s all about giving her something that she can’t get anywhere else. It’s that simple.
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The secret to being that guy is knowing that it’s not about trying to manipulate her into bed; it’s not about trying to pretend that you’re something you’re not; it’s not about lying, manipulating or using her. It’s all about giving her something that she can’t get anywhere else. It’s that simple.
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And this is how most beautiful women feel. They’re going about their lives, desperately looking for some guy who can make them feel the way they’re dying to feel--that spark, that electricity--and when they find that rare guy, they’re going to try everything they can to get him
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I’m talking about finding your satisfaction and happiness in the act of giving. I’m talking about feeling great, simply through the act of giving her what she needs without asking for anything back. I’m talking about being able to walk away happy, even if she doesn’t want to be part of your life. Is that what you were doing when you were being ‘self-amusing’? Is that the underlying motivation when you go out to meet new women? Is that what you were doing when you walked over to Isabella?
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Giving is not the act of doing something to get something. Giving her love, happiness, and freedom can never be about getting her to do something in return, especially not sleep with you. Giving, in its purest form, is about being able to offer something to someone and not requiring anything back. That’s truly giving. That’s the essence of being attractive and not having to ‘do’ attraction
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This is the most powerful part of the realisation--the patterns you experience in your interactions with women aren’t just limited to that arena, they exist in your entire life. If you’re focussed on trying to get women into your life to be happy then there’s a very good chance that you’re focused on getting other things into your life to be happy--maybe money, power, validation or acceptance. They’re all interlinked.
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It’s not until you can see what’s really holding you back that you can ever hope to deal with it.

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The really funny thing is that once you realise this, there’s no turning back. When you really stop and look at your life, all the different places where you’ve experienced frustration and suffering, it’s easy to see that it only occurs because you’re trying to use people--in your family life, in your work life, in your relationships with women, in your leisure time--and if you can give that up, then you don’t have to deal with those problems, they simply won’t exist anymore. Whilst it’s easy to just run the old patterns of blaming other people for the issues that plague your life, you can’t hide from the obvious truth--it’s not about them. It’s all you. The feeling of freedom, or power, and of control is unparalleled.
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The feeling y ou ’ re talking about her e is one I call cer tainty . I t’ s the feeling she gets when she ’ s certain that ever ything’ s goin g to be okay--when she kno ws that sh e doesn ’t ha ve to worr y abou t any i ssues, she doesn ’ t need to take con trol of an y of the specifics and she can j ust relax a nd be f ree. I t ’ s not to sa y t hat sh e couldn ’ t t ake con t rol if sh e want ed to , it ’ s jus t that she doesn ’ t have to . This is at the co re of j ust abou t ever y single one of these desires. W hen she feels safe, secure, free, certain that everyt hing ’ s go ing to be okay , she feels hap py . Does that mak e sense?
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Attraction isn’t a thought. It’s a feeling. What feeling are they looking for? The feeling that everything’s going to be okay--that she doesn’t have to worry, that she doesn’t have to take control of any of the boring details--that she can just be free to do whatever she wants.

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Nice guys are people who change themselves just so that women will like them more. They change the way they act, they change the way they talk, and they change the things they do, just so that women will be attracted to them. How safe do you really think a woman feels around a guy who can’t even stand up to her? If he’s willing to change himself so that she’ll like him, how’s he going to act around a real threat in his life? How’s he going to act when someone whom he thinks is more powerful and attractive comes along? Is he going to stay the same and look after her or is he just going to change himself once again and leave her to chase this new shiny, more attractive playmate?
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“ But, if som eone perceives tha t ever ything’ s goin g to be ok (certainty) and they don ’t kno w what ’ s going t o hap pen next (uncertainty), then they experience excitemen t. If y ou go t back on this new roller coast er but yo u saw tha t the whole thing had chan ged, there wer e loops, turns, twists a nd tunnels, ho w would yo u feel then?” “I w ould feel safe a nd sec ure, kno wing tha t ever ything’ s going t o be okay bu t excit ed be cause I wo uldn ’ t know wha t ’ s go ing to ha ppen next. ”
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That’s right. And this is what she’s looking for--certainty and uncertainty. That feeling that everything’s going to be okay, that she’s safe, that she’s protected, but at the same time, that she’s going on an adventure, somewhere known where she doesn’t know what’s going to happen next. This is what separates that guy from every other guy out there. It’s all in the way he makes her feel. How much time do you think women would want to spend around you if you could give them that feeling all the time? How much time do you think you’d have to spend learning lines, structures, routines, techniques, and all that other stuff that’s supposedly so important?”

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The key point to keep in mind is that certainty is the perception that everything’s going to be okay. It’s not that everything is okay; it’s that as far as you can tell through the limited tools that you have available, that everything is going to be sweet.
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Feminine women rely more on their communication areas. The dominant way that a feminine woman develops her perceptions of the world, and therefore, her sense of certainty, is through communication. And to be that guy for any feminine woman, it’s simply a matter of communicating to her that everything’s going to be okay and that there’s adventure up ahead. Does that make sense?
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“ Think about any women you know who really get their kicks fro m the actions they take. Would you naturally put them in the masculine or feminine category? ”
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“Now think about any guys you know who are totally dependent on how people respond to them to feel good about themselves. Would you put them in the masculine or feminine category?”

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“Being able t o communica te to her that everything’ s goin g to be okay has nothing t o do with standing up stra ig ht er or taking up mor e room. I t ’ s all about h ow you f eel. I t’ s all about ho w you percei ve your wo rld. If yo u’ re scar ed, unsur e, insecure, and lost, then yo u’ re g oing to comm unicate i t through ever y action you do , regardless o f the tr icks you ’ve lea r ned. If y ou’ re n ot certain about your w orld then she ’ s going to r ead it, and she ’ s not g oing to feel certain. After all, how can y ou give her a sense of certain ty if you don ’ t have i t for yo urself ? H ow can yo u communica te something to her tha t you don ’ t have?”
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“Regardless of the words and techniques you use, the way you feel and the way you perceive the world will come through. You may not see it, your mates may not see it, but someone who’s not only biologically programmed but has more than 20 years more experience devoted to learning and understanding communication will definitely see it.”

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What is the way to get hot women?
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“If you want to be that guy who makes her feel safe, secure, and excited whenever you’re around, then you first had to make yourself feel safe, secure, and excited. You have to feel like your place in this world is certain, like your ability to take care of whatever the world throws at you is assured, like you can overcome anything that this world throws at you. There are no tricks, techniques, or methods that can completely mask your fear, doubt, or boredom with life. It all comes down to how you engage your world.”

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